Photographer, Assistant Arrested In Swingers Event

WINDSOR LOCKS - A photographer who police say took pictures of sex acts during a "swingers' night" at the Beverly Hills Suites bar last month was arrested today.

David Shadowfax, 49, of 14 Squires Road in Madison was charged with criminal liability to commit obscenity and criminal liability to commit public indecency, Capt. Chester DeGray said.
Also arrested was Shadowfax's assistant - his wife. Tania Shadowfax, 37, of the same address was arrested on the same charges, he said.
Both turned themselves in at about 6 a.m. and were scheduled to appear in Superior Court in Enfield later in the day, DeGray said.
The arrests followed a November visit by undercover town police and state liquor control agents. They found some of the swingers engaging in oral sex and intercourse in the bar, and a photographer taking pictures, the arrest warrant states.
Also arrested was Nicholas Maulucci, the event's organizer; his wife, Lisette Maulucci; Sharok Jacobi, the owner of the Beverly Hills Suites and Brian B. True, the licensed permittee of the bar, Club 91.
DeGray said he doesn't expect any more arrests.

SW: Все SW-фотографам предупреждение - могут замести в полицию. Нужно аккуратно. А вообще фотограф на Парти... в этом что-то есть
А мы желаем Дэвиду и его жене Тане побыстрее выпутаться из этой истории

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Черно-белый Сальвадор Дали

Книга «Дали и я» - новое слово в исследовании жизни и творчества великого испанского художника. Ее автор - Катрин Милле - утверждает, что в основе всего лежит секс.

Прежде мадам Милле прославилась автобиографическим повествованием "Сексуальная жизнь Катрин М.", в которой рассказывала о похождениях свободной женщины, эдакой femme emancipee 21-го века. Книга произвела шок не только в среде простых обывателей, но и даже в обществе видавших виды сексуальных свингеров. Катрин Милле тотчас же прозвали «новой Эммануэль».
В биографии Дали, изгибы психики которого Катрин Милле сравнивает со своими собственными, автор говорит далеко не только – и даже не столько – о творчестве художника, сколько о жизни его тела, об интимных привычках гения, о его сексуальных маниях, эротических фантазиях и тому подобных вещах. Причем говорит настолько откровенно, что и сам объект повествования позавидовал бы.

Как известно, Сальвадор Дали никак не отличался особенной целомудренностью во взглядах, и сам описывал свое сексуальное «я» с предельной, казалось бы, остротой. Но, ведь, мадам Милле в свое книге еще и довольно мастерски пересаживает переживания и чувства Дали на собственную жизненную почву. Отсюда собственно и название повествования, которое произвело фурор не только в среде профи, но и среди обыкновенных читателей, разошедшись во Франции более чем стотысячным тиражом

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Swingers Group Shut Down

They said on weekends the club would run "Swingers Groups" where men and women came to either engage in or watch sexual activity. When police ran a sting operation last month, they said they witnessed it first hand.

On the evening of November 8, 2008, police report seeing 60 to 70 people inside the club. All of them paid a $40 admission to get in.

Police arrested the three men who they said organized the "Swingers Groups." Nicholas Maulucci faces obscenity and public indecency charges while Brian True and Sharok Jacobi face criminal liability to commit those two charges. Liquor law violations at the club included smoking inside a public building, nudity, sex acts, not serving food and improper use of a service bar.

However, the two attorneys representing True and Jacobi said they maintain their clients' innocence.

"At this time the only thing we can say is that we are denying the allegations," said Aaron Romano, the attorney for Brian True.

"As far as the substance of the charges go, it's very early. I've recently been retained. I haven't had a chance to look at the file. It would be inappropriate to comment at this time, other than to assure you my client maintains his innocence," said J. Patten Brown, the attorney for Jacobi.

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SwingStock: 20 лет!

The Grand Tradition of SwingStock continues! But this year we will be celebrating our 20th fabulous year! It’s a party of monumental proportion and you’re all invited!!! Come out to SwingStock 2009, July 15-19, 2009 and party hearty!!!


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В доме Бушей: В Теме

Мистер Хагер - наследник табачной империи и потомственный республиканц. Муж Дженны Буш, дочери действующего президента США Джорджа Буша

Генри Хагер в прошлом был неоднократно замечен в закрытых свинг клубах Нью-Йорка и Беверли Хиллс.


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Теперь можно слушать плей-лист очередной серии "Swingtown" на Last.fm

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Ксения Сухинова - Мисс Мира

3 декабря россиянка Ксения Сухинова одержала убедительную победу в финале конкурса «Мисс Мира», который состоялся в Йоханнесбурге.

Ксения Сухинова является обладателем титула самой красивой девушки Тюмени, а год назад победила на национальном конкурсе красоты в России. 21-летняя сибирячка обеспечила себе место в полуфинале уже по итогам первого мини-конкурса — «Мисс Мира топ-модель».

Финал в Йоханнесбурге собрал рекордное число телезрителей со всей планеты. Его посмотрели более 1 млрд человек, сообщает ИТАР-ТАСС.


Другие фотографии победительницы.

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Сонные дамы грезят о секс-оргиях

Как бы ни была спорна и однобока его (Фрейда) теория, мысль о тесной связи интимных сновидений с реальной сексуальностью человека не чужда и современным ученым.

Дамские ночные фантазии намного утонченнее и изощреннее во всех отношениях. Сценарий сонной драмы, как правило, отличается нестандартностью и полным отсутствием связи с прозой обыденной жизни. Стремительные любовные утехи в салоне такси или, скажем, на виду у толпы случайных свидетелей - это только самые невинные из событий, имеющих место в сновидениях прекрасных леди. Что же касается подбора актеров, то тут спящие красавицы тоже проявляют творческий и чуждый косности подход. В качестве воображаемого партнера по интимному общению может выступать любой представитель рода человеческого, причем чем немыслимее его пристутствие на сексуальной арене, тем интереснее получается греза.
На первом месте среди участников женских эротических снов уверенно держатся (причем уже давным-давно) коллеги по работе. А в последнее время - о ужас! - среди них стали попадаться и сотрудницы. Иными словами, занятия любовью с другой женщиной не только не претят дамам, но и, наоборот, привлекают своей недозволенной пикантностью. Особое место в списке ночных персонажей занимают бывшие возлюбленные. Тут все понятно и логично: масса живых и ярких воспоминаний, богатый опыт и не совсем остывшие чувства, а иногда и желание покорить утраченного поклонника хотя бы в мире фантазий, - все это толкает игриво настроенных сонь на "виртуальный" флирт с экс-партнерами.

Ну и, конечно, в таком деле не обойтись без загадочной фигуры таинственного незнакомца. Неизвестность и вопиющее нарушение всех моральных устоев, категорически осуждающих случайные половые связи, оказывают на мирно почивающих женщин крайне волнующее действие. Вообще, женская психика изыскивает возбуждающих факторов гораздо больше, нежели мужская, причем делает это с завидной экстравагантностью. К примеру, оттенки голоса, цвета или жестикуляция могут заставить даму растаять и поддаться на коварный соблазн.
И даже несмотря на явную фантастичность описанных сюжетов сновидений, некоторые слишком впечатленные ночным откровением особы все же умудряются сделать сказку былью. Опрос немецких фрау показал, что претворить свои эротические сны в реальность удалось каждой четвертой из них, то есть 28% опрошенных. Да и те, кто так и не осмелился воплотить фантазии на деле, тем не менее полагают, что в жарких снах кроется весомая доля правды. Из 1072 женщин, принимавших участие в анкетировании, львиная доля - 86% - свято верит, что показанные им в грезах волнующие сцены скрывают в себе тайный смысл, который можно при желани истолковать. Иными словами, признать, что секс во сне - это просто секс, согласились всего 14% участниц эксперимента
Михаэль Шредль, занимающийся изучением этого непростого вопроса в Центральном институте душевного здоровья в Мангейме, разделяет вгляд на сон как на аллегорию. Эротические забавы в объятиях Морфея, по его словам, характеризуют жизненную позицию сновидца - активную или пассивную, дают представление о его потаенных желаниях и подавленных порывах, одним словом, раскрывают путь в те глубины подсознания, постичь которые Фрейду и не снилось.

Источник: passion.ru

SW: А отсутствие воплощения фантазий ведет к печальным последствиям - это и без Дедушки понятно....

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Каникулы в Берлине
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Групповой секс: американский способ группового секса глазами ученого. Гилберт Д. Бартел

"Огромное сексуальное возбуждение может доставить одновременное желание плотской и возвышенной любви. Оба супруга превращаются в заговорщиков, которые дают объявления, пишут письма и прячут все улики своего нового пристрастия от детей, родственников, "обыкновенных" друзей и коллег по бизнесу.
Мы считаем, что одно из самых главных преимуществ заключается в том, что супруги могут теперь проводить больше времени вместе в совместных поисках новых знакомых, "выходов" на вечеринки, в бары и на совместимые супружеские пары. Они могут планировать совместные поездки на выходные, путешествия в другие части страны для встречи со свингерами. Они считают, что расширили круг общения и обрели новые интересы, ставшие побочными следствиями свингерских контактов.
Свингеры, по-видимому, получают огромное удовольствие просто от встреч и разговоров с другими свингерами, кроме того, они приобретают новое занятие в жизни, обращая других в свою веру. Бывает так, что swinging впервые за много лет предоставляет паре возможность приодеться, устраивать обеды и планировать вечеринки. Они начинают жить полнокровной общественной жизнью. Телефонные разговоры, ответы на письма и фотографирование не дают им сидеть без дела.
А если они смогут стать весьма "популярной" парой и будут востребованы, они будут считать, что красивы, желанны, увидят самих себя и друг друга в новом свете. Живя по образу, созданному "Плейбоем", они чувствуют, что занимаются тем же, что и лица, принадлежащие к избранному кругу. Это находится в рамках американских культурных особенностей: быть на гребне успеха, иметь друзей, быть занятым делом. Кто-то избрал для достижения этого иные способы. Наши информаторы выбрали swinging."

Профессор атропологии Гилберт Д. Бартел.
Чикаго, Иллинойс
7 октября 1970 года

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"Семейная жизнь весом в 158 фунтов" Джон Ирвинг

Действие романа разворачивается в университетской среде одного из восточных штатов. Автор переплетает судьбы двух супружеских пар самым причудливым образом, вскрывая на глазах читателей слой за слоем самые глубинные и темные тайники человеческой личности. Пытаясь вернуть остроту своим эротическим ощущениям, герои идут на смелый эксперимент. Но человеческие отношения не поддаются планированию как простая игра.

Нас тогда было даже не двое, а четверо, и у этой нашей четверки жизненные соки в жилах бродили так вольно: струились, кровоточили и кипели, как уже никогда в будущем. (С)Джон Хоукс. Кровавые апельсины

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R.I.P: Бетти Пейдж - одна из первых моделей, позировавших для журнала Playboy.

"Культовая фигура, оказавшая влияние на изменение отношения к сексу, на моду, на все общество" (С) Основатель журнала Playboy Хью Хеффнер

Бетти Пейдж приобрела известность в 50-х годах прошлого века, снимаясь для журналов в одном купальнике. Многие полагают, что ее зачастую пикантные и откровенно эротические снимки стали одним из факторов, способствовавших сексуальной революции 60-х годов.
В ноябре Бетти Пейдж, которой исполнилось 85 лет, попала в больницу с воспалением легких. На прошлой неделе у нее случился инфаркт, и она, так и не придя в сознание, скончалась в одной из больниц Лос-Анджелеса.
Агент Бетти Пейдж назвал ее "самим воплощением красоты".

Ассошиэйтед пресс приводит слова основателя журнала Playboy Хью Хеффнера, который назвал Пейдж "культовой фигурой, оказавшей влияние на изменение отношения к сексу, на моду, на все общество". Бетти Пейдж родилась в Нэшвилле, штат Теннеси, в апреле 1923 года. Карьера фотомодели для нее началась после того, как в начале 50-х фотограф-любитель попросил ее позировать для него в Нью-Йорке.

В 1955 году Пейдж согласилась сняться для журнала Playboy.

Источник: bbc.co.uk

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Swingtown (2008)

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В ролях: Лиза Тамаширо, Джек Девенпорт, Молли Паркер, Грант Шоу, Лана Паррилла, Мириам Шор, Джош Хопкинс, Бриттани Робертсон


1970-е года… Семейная пара Сьюзан и Брюс Миллер переезжает с детьми в престижный пригород Чикаго, предвкушая новую идеальную жизнь. Для них это – пикники на заднем дворе и дети играющие рядом. Однако, после знакомства со своими новыми соседями Томом и Триной Дэкер, Миллеры понимают, что наравне с традиционными сексуальными отношениями есть ещё и «свободные браки», в которых выбор сексуального партнёра и групповой секс воспринимаются как неотъемлемая часть семейной жизни. Предыдущие соседи Миллеров, Дженет и Роджер Томпсон, абсолютно не понимают и не приемлют подобную сексуальную свободу. Сериал раскрывает целую американскую эпоху, в которой «свободные браки», свобода женщин и обмен партнёрами приобретают абсолютно новое значение.

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Well swung: A guide to British swingers - part IV

Ewan Morrison, автор "SWUNG", делится своими советами и наблюдениями - Часть IV

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14. One of the joys is in not having sex
At times, I interviewed men myself, just like in a job interview - assessing whether they could put my new partners Sam or Julie at ease, make them laugh, whether they could be trusted. A 6ft 5in New Zealander with a ponytail and no sense of humour, a nervous young man whose ad said he was VWE (very well endowed) but who'd lied about his age and sat trembling as I interviewed him in a bar. He ran out when I went to the toilet. The kid no doubt thought he was so unattractive that it would be easier to score with a couple than go through the process of nightclubbing and dancing and chatting-up only to face rejection.

15. There is a dubious side to swinging
It does attract people who are escapees, or have the wrong motives. Some do it to try to save a failing marriage; some do it to cheat and get away with it; some couples are married but not to each other and swing behind their partners' backs once a month in other cities in hotel rooms. There are some single men, too, who hire prostitutes for the night so they can swing with a couple (they are usually found out, as part of the process is the chat, the building of trust on the basis of a couple's past).
The fact remains, however, that the great majority of swinging ads say, "No single men" - and swinging clubs also have a no-single-men policy. Single men are generally only brought on to the scene when a couple have a bi-curious male. Or when a couple wants multiple men. To be picked as a single male you generally have to be "WE" or "VWE" (although I once saw an ad from a couple looking for a man with a very small endowment). Or to be young - another ad from a retirement-age bisexual couple from Cornwall was calling for an "Adonis" to go with them on their second honeymoon to Greece.

16. Swinging does a lot for your self-confidence and your intuition
You start to see beyond people's appearances. You feel a bit like Tyler Durden in Fight Club, analysing everyone around you to work out if they're part of your Revolutionary Sub-Culture. You develop what is called "Playdar" - a bit like Gaydar. Swingers can spot each other in public. A couple once picked me up in a "regular bar".

17. Swinging is a question, not an answer
My year of swinging ended before I completed my book. I felt I had to stop and take stock and that a novel would be the vehicle for that. The year ended with a prior stage of escalation - an invitation to an orgy at which I realised I'd get much more from it if I was really in love with a partner. My partners had been explorers, not lovers. I was not in love - but I think in that year I learned to love people more, to be more compassionate, more accepting of difference.
I met so many people who claimed their lives had been enriched. And it still makes me ask if the conventions of monogamy are too repressive. Although swingers rarely quote psychologists or radical thinkers, there is an unspoken philosophy akin to that expounded by Erich Fromme and the polyfidelity movement (a sexual variation on communal living): a belief that polyfidelity cures the social problems of loneliness, jealousy, adultery, social fragmentation and emotional boredom.

My year of swinging ended with many new friends who were no longer lovers. Each of us, generally, moved on. Joanne now has a partner and a child. Sally has an on-going relationship with a couple. Which leads me to believe that swinging is, for the committed core, a lifestyle that they live day-in day-out. But for the majority who pass through the websites, it is a stage gone through for a year or so, a volatile stage filled with questions about limits and boundaries. Who I am? How will I live? Can I be happy? Can I love? What is love? Swinging is not so much an answer as a question asked deeply - for as many philosophers say, the only questions worth asking should place your life, and your body, at the heart of the question.

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Well swung: A guide to British swingers - part III

Ewan Morrison, автор "SWUNG", делится своими советами и наблюдениями - Часть III

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11. Swinging is addictive
Over the next six months we had five different encounters - and constantly wanted more. The list of erotic possibilities had to be seen through. There is a sense of accumulation within swinging. Once things like good looks, age and class background have been dispensed with, people then generally tend towards quantity - bigger tits, bigger dicks, more people at the same time. So it was that she wanted to have - and she felt embarrassed by this because it was a clichéd fantasy - a black man with a big dick. So just like shopping on ebay, I found her one. Twelve miles away on the outskirts. He was 5ft 11in tall, aged 23, worked in a call centre, did a bit of modelling, was very good-looking. Again a bar meet and we trusted him. He drove back to his, we followed. He owned the property he said, had a tenant, he'd just split up with his girlfriend, it was best if the tenant didn't know we were there. We were to be discreet. He and I took turns having sex with Joanne. She said she had never been happier in her life.

12. You start to become a theorist
After a few encounters we started to analyse the scene, compare observations, draw up theories. For example, the debate on whether threesomes are better than fours. In a threesome as a couple, you have one toy (boy or girl) between you. With fours (and chat-rooms talk a lot about this) there tend to be complications, as it's almost impossible for all four to find each other attractive. One person will always be left out. And people have complex reasons too for swinging. Perhaps a man doesn't find his wife attractive anymore. He's doing it just to get some action. Or she's doing it to test the boundaries of their love, or to push it to breaking point. Then again, there are those so strong in their commitment that they love to watch their partners having pleasure with others, and are not threatened by it or made jealous. Joanne and I debated all these things. We drew up lists of things we'd learned:
There are a great number of couples with "bi-curious fems" looking for a woman - so it's more than just every man's fantasy of having two women in bed. More often than not they'd say: "partner not to be present"; or "partner to watch"; or, in one memorable ad, "partner to be in same building but not room".
Swingers often travel great distances to meet. They spend whole weekends together. They eat, sleep, watch TV, walk in the park. One couple travelled up from Manchester to stay with us.
You start writing diary entries like this: "Michel Houellebecq proposes that sex has become commodified - a currency - that there are those who live lives of poverty because they are unattractive, old, poor..." That sexual liberation has, in fact, oppressed millions of people. But swinging is the opposite - it is a free, open exchange, with no hierarchy or competition, no survival of the fittest. It runs counter to the prevailing consumerist ethos.

13. After a while you need to get some distance on exactly what it is you're doing
One moment, perhaps on our sixth encounter, when I'd been watching Joanne having sex, very complex emotions began running through me. Did I care for her? Did watching other people having sex turn me on? Could I live like this with a female partner - vicariously through other people. It was about this time that I started writing about swinging. To try to put these emotions into place. A novel took shape - about a couple so much in love but still they needed more. I didn't think at the time that I was being a "naked anthropologist". I wasn't doing research for the book. So many couples saying it made their love stronger. Did I want to love Joanne? I realised we had started from the wrong premise. The love has to be there from the start. You can't find it through swinging. And maybe I was scared of how much commitment it would take to see this through. More so than in a conventional relationship.
Joanne found my detachment frustrating. I encouraged her to see other people without me. As far as I know, she didn't swing with others - I was her swinging partner - but she did start seeing other guys. I, too, had started seeing other women. And strangely, the confidence that swinging had given me seemed to bring women to me who wanted to explore their sexuality. Over the next six months with three different women, I swung, with couples, with single men and women. And each time it was the same feeling: I am missing something.
The process fascinated me - breaking the cliché that it is men who want to screw around and women who want stability. Of course, many would think this was coercion on my behalf - that these women were only doing this to please me. But in each case, it was the woman who had the guts to see things through.

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Well swung: A guide to British swingers - part II

Ewan Morrison, автор "SWUNG", делится своими советами и наблюдениями - Часть II

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6. Swingers are very 'safe'
Whether it be over sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) or personal space. Everything commences only from a point of trust and consent within a group. If one person dissents then it's a "no". We told ourselves that at any moment either of us could call it off. But Tony and Joan had us laughing from minute one. This surreal scenario of being with a couple of strangers in a pub, openly discussing the terms and conditions. Condoms? Of course. Will the two men be having sex? No. The two women? Yes. Full partner swap? Yes - but Tony didn't like other men looking at his penis. All this in a public bar surrounded by 50 people who talked about "normal" things - Big Brother, nightclubs, Posh & Becks. No safety words said, we were invited back to their house.

7. The old cliché - Seventies suburbia, bored middle-class, middle-aged wife-swapping key parties - is no longer true
In my year I must have come across every social type apart from that one: a stand-up comedian; a call-centre girl and her partner; a male model; two professors; two heavy-metal heads. No hint of the suburbs - and mostly everyone under 40. Tony worked in insurance, Joan worked at Tesco; they lived in a housing scheme. Once they'd shown us in and we'd had a drink they revealed their real names: Steve and Sally.

8. Swinging is surreal
The feeling is of an almost-socialist utopia of open-mindedness and tolerance. You get invited into the homes of people you wouldn't normally socialise with. It's like being in a hobby club - stamp collectors, or model-aeroplane makers. There's the foreign-ness of their décor, their taste in music. And in an hour you're having sex together.

9. Swingers love to philosophise
Before we got down to business, Sally and Steve talked about how long they'd been doing it - how it had brought them closer, how so many couples strayed after the seven-year mark, how it contained the threat of infidelity (Steve travelled a lot with work), and how it made them love each other more (76 per cent of swingers rate themselves as "very happy" as compared to 54 per cent of non-swingers). They wanted to know all about us. How long we'd been together? How often had we done it before? We confessed it was our first time and they were thrilled to have some "newbies" - they talked excitedly about this whole world that would open up for us. Very strange, very unlike the usual monogamous boy-meets-girl processes of seduction. There was a lot of laughter.

10. Swinging is not just about sex
Steve and Sally made it clear that they were not in this just to have one-night flings - they wanted to develop friendships. They knew many other swinging couples and sometimes they just hung out. We didn't need to have sex tonight if we didn't want to. They liked us, they'd love to see us again. And it was us two who came across as pushy, wanting to get the deal done. Still, it was a relief and a release to talk with a couple so openly about love and sex and relationships, shedding so much baggage. Sitting in their lounge surrounded by pictures of their family members. At some point it was agreed that we'd all get naked. And Joanne had her first lesbian experience. I watched, for the first time, my girlfriend having sex first with a woman then with a man. Then I took my turn with Sally. I made the mistake of watching Steve having sex with Joanne. He covered his penis with his shirt. Me and Sally sat watching, sipping warm Liebfraumilch.
Joanne felt awkward after that, she seemed to have enjoyed it all more than me - although the lesbian thing had not turned her on as much as she thought. She said touching another woman's breasts was a bit like putting on your own bra. She was glad, though, that she could now go to the Pearly Gates and say: "I did it!"

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Well swung: A guide to British swingers - part I

Ewan Morrison, автор "SWUNG", делится своими советами и наблюдениями

1. Getting started is easy
All you need is a modem, curiosity and a major life-change. I certainly had that. I'd been living in New York with a script-writing job. The job fell through and I found myself back in Glasgow, without work, without a partner, with only this city I'd left staring me back in the face. It started with online dating. Three months of success. So many women wanting only a one-night stand. But the whole game ultimately repetitive: the processes of chatting-up, your potted personal history, the same jokes working again and again. Wouldn't it be better to agree in advance that sex was all it was about? Disillusioned, I noticed that almost every dating website had a link to a swinging site. (The two main sites in the UK claim to have around 7o0,000 users each.)

2. You can only swing with a partner you really trust
After three months and 30 dates I met Joanne. Her story was similar to mine. She'd just come back to the UK after living in Spain, had been through a traumatic separation with her fiancé and been online dating for six months. Within an hour of meeting we were in bed. Laughing, comparing histories. Like me, she was wary of commitment. She had a temp job in IT. She wasn't sure how long she'd stay in Glasgow. She was 38. "Life is too short" and "You only live once," she said. She just wanted to have fun. We had fun. Seeing each other once a week. Sex games and toys and stories. But after a time the stagnation started. We both needed something more but were distrusting of sinking back into couple mode. Two escapees, we didn't want to end up shackled to each other. So the erotic fantasies started. Checking out swinging sites. The questions: had she ever done it with a woman? No. Was she curious? Yes. Had I ever been with a couple? No, but I was curious. We talked about it. It could be cathartic. Could help us break the mould we'd both found so damaging in the past. We agreed - we'd join the scene and she would have her first woman.

3. You have to learn a lot of terminology
It was maybe the fascination with that that pulled us through. So many abbreviations to learn: Nump - No Ugly Men Please; Spark - Single Parent Raising Kid; HWP - Height/Weight Proportional; FA - Fat Admirer; BBW - Big Beautiful Woman; MBA - Married But Available.
We e-mailed and chatted with dozens of couples. Took our first sex pictures. Posted them on our ad. Swapped them online. Made up fake names as the sites recommended. We were Dave and Shelia. Our first couple called themselves Tony and Joan.

4. You'll need to prove who you are
After swapping e-mails and pics with Tony and Joan we moved to the next stage - proving you are real. This was done with web-cams and a swap of phone numbers. (This is crucial because many people post pictures online of better looking, more well-endowed people and when they show up they are revealed as liars.)

5. There are specific rituals to learn
You call on mobile phones not landlines. You arrange to meet in a public place. For safety reasons. As a get-out, you have a secret "safety word" prepared - if you don't fancy the couple you drop "pizza" or "shopping" into the conversation and your partner knows to call it a day. We had our safety word prepared and agreed to meet in a bar. It was exactly like a first teenage date. The nervousness, the adrenalin, the sense of daring - the anxiety over whether you'd see it through, whether you wanted to.


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Well swung: A guide to British swingers

While working on a novel about swingers the acclaimed author Ewan Morrison spent a year exploring Britain's secret sexual subculture. Twelve months and many, many partners later, this is what he learned


My year of swinging ended with many new friends who were no longer lovers. Each of us, generally, moved on. Joanne now has a partner and a child. Sally has an on-going relationship with a couple. Which leads me to believe that swinging is, for the committed core, a lifestyle that they live day-in day-out. But for the majority who pass through the websites, it is a stage gone through for a year or so, a volatile stage filled with questions about limits and boundaries. Who I am? How will I live? Can I be happy? Can I love? What is love? Swinging is not so much an answer as a question asked deeply - for as many philosophers say, the only questions worth asking should place your life, and your body, at the heart of the question."

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About the author
Ewan Morrison graduated from Glasgow School of Art with a degree in Fine Art and went on to become a successful television director. He has directed more than 200 hours of drama, arts and entertainment programmes for Channel4, BBC, Sky and STV, been nominated for four Baftas and was winner of a Royal Television Society Award in 2001. Since 2003, he has held Writer in Residence posts in France, Australia and New York. His first collection of short stories, The Last Book You Read, was published in 2005. Swung, a novel based on his year as a swinger, is published by Jonathan Cape on 5 April, price £11.99. To order at a special price, including free P&P, call Independent Books Direct, 08700 798 897

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Описание: Элис обнаруживает, что Дэвид посещает свинг сайты - секси-домохозяйки, парочки, которые не против попробовать что-нибудь этакое... Это всего лишь шутка, говорит он... Элис заинтригована. Она чувствует, что это и есть решение проблем Дэвида. Элис и Дэвид погружаются в мир свинга Глазго, где нет уродцев и ничто не запрещено....

It started as a joke.....

From the moment she first meets him Alice is aware that David is impotent. ‘I’m impotent,’ he says, ‘in so many ways.’ He’s separated from his wife and daughter, an HR executive worried for his job at a Glaswegian TV company. She’s American, wants to be an artist. They move in together.
To start with she tells him stories, bedtime stories about couples having sex, them watching. Then Alice finds that David has gone further, and is logging on to swinging sites – horny housewives, couples willing to try anything… Just as a joke, he says.

Alice is intrigued. These people seem so honest, so open about needing to reach out and touch. And maybe this is the answer to David’s problem. Maybe they need people like this to give them a love life.
And so David and Alice plunge head first into the hidden world of Glasgow swinging, where no one is ugly and nothing is forbidden. Their journey ends at an orgy with nine other couples in the Black Room, where you can see nothing but feel everything. And there, finally, each of them finds what they have been searching for.
Like Ewan Morrison’s first book, the highly-praised The Last Book You Read and Other Stories, Swung is frank, funny, disturbing and compassionate. It confirms Morrison as a writer of great daring and huge gifts.


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"Being in the lifestyle is one of the many ways that Kevin and Linsey keep their relationship fun and exciting. They both love the social aspect and the good friends that they have made, not only in Denver, but wherever they travel they've met amazing people that are open and fun and sexy. After an event or party, they often wake up the next morning and laughing and smiling about all the wonderful and wild experiences they've had together, and looking forward to what will come next." (С)Kasidie



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В Петербурге свингер получил по голове от жены сожителя

9 декабря. Милиция Невского района Петербурга устанавливает обстоятельства необычного происшествия, случившегося накануне днем в одной из квартир дома на улице Дыбенко. Около 15 часов дня скорая помощь увезла оттуда в 17-ю Городскую больницу 43-летнего мужчину. У него тяжелая черепно-мозговая травма, передает АН «Оперативное прикрытие».
По информации журналистов, в однокомнатной квартире проживала «шведская» семья — две супружеские пары, исповедующие «свободные» нравы. До поры до времени свингеры мирно уживались к взаимному удовольствию, но накануне произошло неожиданное событие — одна из женщин приревновала ныне прикованного к больничной койке мужчину к... его собственной супруге.

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Роман о "Мамба"

Первый роман Полины Громовой, активного блогера ЖЖ и одного из неформальных лидеров сайта знакомств Мамба. История девушки, которая приехала в Москву после неудачного брака, чтобы начать новую жизнь, основана на реальных событиях.


"Она пересмотрела десятки тысяч сетевых анкет и встретилась со множеством искателей любви в реале. Попутно накапливала сотни ярких и пикантных историй знакомств, из которых сложилась ее первая книга – жизненный роман «Сезон охоты в Сети».

Теперь сотни тысяч интернет-пользователей стоят в очередь за советами многоопытного эксперта знакомств. Кто, кроме Полины, знает, как найти вторую половину в Интернете – и не обломаться на первом же реальном свидании?

Реальные истории счастливых встреч и самых трешовых провалов, гармоничные союзы и сетевые байки в духе «любовь зла», а также новейший перечень того, что может случиться с девушкой, которая ищет любовь через Интернет!"(С) eksmo.ru


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Foreclosure looms for owners of Duncanville's Cherry Pit swingers club

The owners of Duncanville's Cherry Pit swingers club face foreclosure on the home where they have hosted sex parties for hundreds of Dallas-area swingers.

According to a case filed in Dallas County's 116th District Court, Jim Trulock is six months late on payments to his $163,600 mortgage. He owns the Cherry Pit along with Julie M. Norris.

The foreclosure hints at the couple's financial difficulties stemming from a slew of legal trouble that began last year when the city of Duncanville approved an ordinance outlawing the sex club operation.
Mr. Trulock, 60, recently posted a message on the Cherry Pit Web site asking for investors to donate $100 to help with legal fees and court fines imposed on the couple.
"In the past we have asked for donations for the legal defense fund to fight the illegal activities of the city of Duncanville," it says on the Web site. "Now we seek investors, both large and small, who want to invest in our defense and get a return on their money when the civil suits are settled against the city.
"If you cannot invest," the posting continued, "think about people you know who might be interested in investing in a landmark swinger's case and making a good return on their investment."

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Terry Gould:”If people have control of their own sexuality, then that means they're not under the control of society.” (С)

“At some level most men believe that their wives could behave very licentiously if given the opportunity to do so, and that's why there's jealousy and fear.”

Тerry Gould is the best selling author of The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers, a book that has been profiled on ABC's 20/20 and CBS's 48 Hours, and is widely considered to be the only serious investigation of the modern swinging subculture by a mainstream journalist.

Kasidie: Your book is unique in contrast to other books about the swinging lifestyle in that you are not actually a swinger yourself. You wrote it purely as an outside observer of lifestyle. Most people who go that deep into the lifestyle or spend that much time around swingers are usually people who are interested in getting into the lifestyle themselves.

Terry Gould: Yeah, let me start by saying it was just a professional engagement of journalism. That's what I do when I tell a story, I stay with it. I've written several books and studied the subject matter for years. That's not unusual for any journalist. In my case, sometimes organized crime sometimes social phenomena. It takes a long time to treat a subject seriously and understand it and explain it. Not just on the most obvious and spectacular manifestations you see on the outside that can be covered by a daily newspaper but culturally historically morally ethically biologically.

Kasidie: I understand that this book and its research resulted from an earlier article you wrote for a magazine?

Terry Gould: In this case the book was published in 1999 and if we go back ten years before then, I was senior editor of a magazine and I was covering a story on swingers. So I did what a lot of journalists did in those days. I found an ad in a local newspaper, went to a club party and from that wrote an article. The people I encountered that particular night in that particular club were not very flattering to that subculture......

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